Love Control

As we get older, let's face it, our libido changes. For women it may increase, for men, most times it decreases because of hormones. But I've been thinking about how nice it is to be looking/waiting for love without raging hormones. 

I don't want to go out at night searching for someone that only fulfills partial needs. I want to meet someone who completes me. 

As we get older, if you are still single, think of how wonderful it is to be single now. You get the chance to use all of your past knowledge about relationships--what is right and wrong for you personally--what works in a live-in situation, what doesn't. You can look beyond first glances at someone and really see that someone you may never have fallen for at 20, could possibly be your soulmate at 50. That's exciting news!

You are more vibrant and wonderful now than you ever were when you were younger. With every day you get wiser and more beautiful. Wisdom is gorgeous, my friend. And when the right person finds you, you'll see inside his/her soul and know it is right. You'll dance in the delight of friendship meeting love, meeting communication, meeting a symbiotic desire to spend time together. 

It won't be something you have to force or manipulate. Love will simply be. That's how you will know you have arrived.

"Spirit God, help me see myself as the wonderful, beautiful creature you have created me. I know that somewhere my mate is looking for me, as I am for him/her. Let our souls meet in prayer now, to prepare each other for the inevitable. Let me live in the peace of knowing that if I see the opportunity to act on this feeling of love, that I will without trepidation follow my heart to love."