My List
My List...
Have you ever made a list like this:
(This truly is my list, just in case some wonderful person out there is looking or someone has a friend in mind. lol)
I'm searching for a person with a compassionate heart. An eye for humor. An interest in self care, both body and mind. I'd like to be with a person who likes what he does for work and is not a workaholic. One who is free of mostof his demons from the past. One who is financially stable. Ready for a monogamous relationship. Who likes to have fun. Did I mention I need this to be a human, not a figment of my imagination, and not a dog, because I already have one? And most important, I need a person in my life who is on a spiritual path...
Okay... How many people have made lists like this before and waited and waited for that perfect person to come along? If I don't get a resounding YES in the universe, someone is lying.
The problem with these kinds of lists is they are one-sided. Your list should also include what you are willing to do to attract someone like this. Or are you all of the things that you want to attract, because you know, LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!
So, if you are interested in attracting someone wonderful, become wonderful. If you are interested in attracting someone rich, learn to be responsible with your money. If you want someone who is responsible with your heart, take care of your own heart in a big way. Don't let someone tromp on it and expect the universe to give you Prince Charming soon after.
Make 2 lists, all the things you want in a human being (make the human thing clear to God. A friend of mine got a dog once because her list wasn't so specific. Sorry, Shirley.) Then make a list of things that you can do to be ready for that soul-person to appear in your life. If like attracts like, then you be ready for that wonderful person to appear.
And if you are already in a relationship, keep the change happening. Change in you, often results in change in the other person. As you grow, either the other person grows, or he/she shows complete resistance, and you see that the relationship needs to be released for you to be the best you can be. There is nothing wrong with that. There is no judgement when someone doesn't want to grow. Just move on. Your growth on this earth is the most important aspect of being human. Remember that.
Have you ever made a list like this:
(This truly is my list, just in case some wonderful person out there is looking or someone has a friend in mind. lol)
I'm searching for a person with a compassionate heart. An eye for humor. An interest in self care, both body and mind. I'd like to be with a person who likes what he does for work and is not a workaholic. One who is free of mostof his demons from the past. One who is financially stable. Ready for a monogamous relationship. Who likes to have fun. Did I mention I need this to be a human, not a figment of my imagination, and not a dog, because I already have one? And most important, I need a person in my life who is on a spiritual path...
Okay... How many people have made lists like this before and waited and waited for that perfect person to come along? If I don't get a resounding YES in the universe, someone is lying.
The problem with these kinds of lists is they are one-sided. Your list should also include what you are willing to do to attract someone like this. Or are you all of the things that you want to attract, because you know, LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!
So, if you are interested in attracting someone wonderful, become wonderful. If you are interested in attracting someone rich, learn to be responsible with your money. If you want someone who is responsible with your heart, take care of your own heart in a big way. Don't let someone tromp on it and expect the universe to give you Prince Charming soon after.
Make 2 lists, all the things you want in a human being (make the human thing clear to God. A friend of mine got a dog once because her list wasn't so specific. Sorry, Shirley.) Then make a list of things that you can do to be ready for that soul-person to appear in your life. If like attracts like, then you be ready for that wonderful person to appear.
And if you are already in a relationship, keep the change happening. Change in you, often results in change in the other person. As you grow, either the other person grows, or he/she shows complete resistance, and you see that the relationship needs to be released for you to be the best you can be. There is nothing wrong with that. There is no judgement when someone doesn't want to grow. Just move on. Your growth on this earth is the most important aspect of being human. Remember that.
Posted by Your Gay Friend's Guide Blog at 1/23/2012 10:45 AM 
Categories: sex, advice, Voice Lessons, Psychology for an Authentic Self, Mental Health Relationships:Life Coach:Hypnotherapy, relationship, love
Tags: My List Finding a Mate Soulmates partners spirituality
Categories: sex, advice, Voice Lessons, Psychology for an Authentic Self, Mental Health Relationships:Life Coach:Hypnotherapy, relationship, love
Tags: My List Finding a Mate Soulmates partners spirituality
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