Sex, thoughts, and relationship
Sex, Thoughts and Relationship
You know, every thought does not have to be an action. In fact, some times, fantasy replaces an action that could possibly be damaging to your life.
Substitution:
The problem with this thought process is combining an action with a fantasy over a long period time causes a connection in the subconscious mind that is hard to replace without professional help.
For instance, if you decide to masturbate with the thought of (or pornographic pictures). Just doing this action could keep you from getting arrested or caught by your partner, but eventually, if you keep doing it, it will be hard to get aroused without the pictures.
So, here is my advice for the day. If you have a sexual compulsion that you are trying to deal with by substitution, because you are protecting a relationship... you need to change your fantasy frequently, otherwise you'll end up with a compulsion. If you want to stay in the relationship... first seek professional help with your compulsion, then, the therapist can help you include your partner in the therapy. Trust me, there is no getting over something huge like a sexual compulsion, without the help of someone who loves you enough to go the distance.
The result of not getting help, will surely lead to something you don't want: Your partner finding your deep secret by accident!
Posted by Your Gay Friend's Guide Blog at 8/28/2010 9:39 AM 
Categories: sex, advice, relationship
Tags: sex advice relationship
Categories: sex, advice, relationship
Tags: sex advice relationship
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